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Comment on How do you stand your ground without being a bitch? by albrightlesa

albrightlesa — Wed, 11 Mar 2009 23:02:02 +0000

(To every thing there is a season and a time to every purpose under heaven )There are some people who you have to be a bitch to and some who will accept a nice no ask God for wisdom to know which ones tou have to yell at..I usually say no then if that dose not work I ask”what part of no do you not understand the N or the O”

Comment on How do you stand your ground without being a bitch? by voice of reason

voice of reason — Mon, 09 Mar 2009 19:45:29 +0000

You can stand your ground without being a ***** by not being *****hy. State your point or refusal, or different opinion without being confrontational or aggressive (or apologetic ad don’t whine) and allow or accept that others have the same right. If you can’t agree just end it with a “yes I see you point” (you see it but not agree). If you are being pressured to do something or a response a “I’ll have to think about it (or check) and I”ll let you know.”
But different situations require different reactions and you are really the only one that knows. Best way to determine is to think how you would want others to be towards you or reject you etc and that will give you an idea on how to behave.

Comment on How do you stand your ground without being a bitch? by armagh4466

armagh4466 — Sat, 07 Mar 2009 15:40:29 +0000

Always worrying about people think about you will never allow you to think for yourself. And then what? Your life is not going to be your own, it belongs to those people you are trying to please, some of them who don’t really have your best interests at heart. If people hate you because you stand up for yourself, they don’t belong in your life anyway. Now if someone calls me a *****, it runs off me like water off a duck.

Comment on How do you stand your ground without being a bitch? by firelilee

firelilee — Sat, 07 Mar 2009 00:14:28 +0000

its not very hard and it is something that you must do NOW if not your spend the rest of your life the way somebody else wants you to live it, not the way you want to live!

Cut those strings girl! your no puppet!!!

Comment on How do you stand your ground without being a bitch? by Dean

Dean — Wed, 04 Mar 2009 02:55:06 +0000

there r ppl in this world of ours that don’t respect ppl unless they hold they ground no matter what.

Comment on How do you stand your ground without being a bitch? by Dash Rendaer

Dash Rendaer — Sun, 01 Mar 2009 08:11:56 +0000

If they can’t respect your opinions, they aren’t your friends. I have had this trouble before, and it is a very difficult problem. Talk to your friends about how you don;t think they respect you, and act in such a way to deserve respect. Try to find people who will treat you properly. You don’t have to break it off with the jerks, but finding a wider circle will remove your dependency on any one friend, so you can stand your ground from a strong point. You shouldn’t have to be a jerk to be respected, but you need to be willing to say no and be firm.

Comment on How do you stand your ground without being a bitch? by ihavenoeasteregg

ihavenoeasteregg — Sat, 28 Feb 2009 15:23:18 +0000

Use a mix of cynicism, intelligence, and a forceful voice. Most people who hate on others have IQs below room temperature and try to harass others to make themselves feel better.
Make a smart, insulting comment to them with a sly grin and stern voice and the idiots will come back with more insults that are so terrible they make themselves look like douches. Everyone will realize that too.

Comment on How do you stand your ground without being a bitch? by vickififi

vickififi — Fri, 27 Feb 2009 20:25:16 +0000

just stand up for yourself and don’t worry about acting like a +++++….I was worried for years about not wanting to act like a “”"”"….I was constantly walked on for YEARS…Now, finally I stand my ground and people leave me alone…I am actually proud to be able to act like a “”"”"…I am no longer the little mouse…

Comment on How do you stand your ground without being a bitch? by dad5

dad5 — Fri, 27 Feb 2009 01:57:03 +0000

People will treat you the way you allow them too. If you don’t like the way they are tretaing you tell them. It isn’t wrong to stand up for yourself and you can do that without being mean, just be firm.

Comment on How do you stand your ground without being a bitch? by igiveufinger

igiveufinger — Tue, 24 Feb 2009 17:19:35 +0000

be your self. fuk what anyone else thinks. but do stand your ground, if someone messes with you tell them ” do i bother you, no… then go play with your self and leave me alone dude.

Comment on How do you stand your ground without being a bitch? by aussiegenes

aussiegenes — Sat, 21 Feb 2009 15:26:13 +0000

The trick is to be assertive, not aggressive. For example, someone is walking their dog past your house and lets him poop on your lawn. Aggressive behavior would be to run out there and yell at them, possibly give body language that indicates you’d like to fight. Assertive is to hand them a ziplock bag and point to the dumpster along with some statement about not liking to have to clean up after all the neighborhood dogs.

We are from a culture in which girls/women are expected to be perpetually “nice”, even at the expense of their own needs and wants. Boys are taught to fight for what they want. Assertive statements are the middle ground and much healthier for all invovled.

Comment on How do you stand your ground without being a bitch? by Bonnie S

Bonnie S — Fri, 20 Feb 2009 13:30:08 +0000

It is a fine line between a bitch and a pushover. I have the same issue. You need to say straight out that something bothers you when you feel wronged. Simply state the way it affects you and how you want to be treated or want this changed. When it is a work related problem, go to the boss, but make sure you have ideas on how it can be resolved as well. Nobody wants to hear a complainer unless they can help solve the problem.

Comment on How do you stand your ground without being a bitch? by Mr. Fancy Pants

Mr. Fancy Pants — Wed, 18 Feb 2009 06:14:28 +0000

My grandma used to say that it was good to have enemies, because it meant you were important enough to have them!
I was once a pushover, but let me be blunt. You cannot make EVERYONE like you.. pretty soon, some people will dislike you, and call you names, but that’s just a fact of life. By standing your ground on what’s important, you’ll reveal who you are and leave some other people out. It’s your job to sort the good friends from the bad friends, and you can only do that by sticking up for yourself.
To end this with another quote- “Morality is like art. It involves drawing a line somewhere.”
best of luck sweetheart!